The secret of successful acquaintance after the first date. Planning of all your actions – that's the key to success.

How to plan a date so that it led to success.

We have already examined some ways, on how to make your first acquaintance successful. Today we offer to take a step back and consider the order in which these techniques are used. It's very important to understand clearly all stages of relationships with women, from dating to fairly deep relationship. Of course, our recommendations are not mandatory, but they'll help you to achieve even higher levels of pleasure, when dealing with women.

A rough plan for successful dating with a girl.

Here is the plan that we recommend you to follow:

1. To greet a woman confidently

2. Fun communication

3. To select any parts, speaking something about this girl

4. Emotional connection

5. Personal (life) story

6. More cheerful communication

7. Inquiring about further actions

Let's look this plan more in more details:

Confident greeting.

Your greeting should not be shy; it's should be something more original, something, that requires a creative approach. Importantly, it isn't necessary to put a woman almost on a pedestal on the first meeting, inventing too pretentious words. Women on first meetings usually pay little attention to attempts "to put them on a pedestal". They know very well that you're still unfamiliar and she doesn't feel worthy of the honor "to be a lady". 

As a result, in the woman's eyes you can be either too pretentious (strange), or she'll think you're just not used to communicate with beautiful women any earlier. The best greeting will be “Hello”. Bad greeting will be “Hello, beautiful”, or “when I just looked at your photo – my heart had been excitedly beating”.

Fun communication.

Do not immediately ask the girl about any facts of her life or ask her what she's doing. Your task on the first date is a fun pastime. Women have an amazing gift to predict awkward situation and try to avoid them carefully. Use interesting and funny stories, to have a good time.

Selection of details, speaking about the girl.

When your jokes and funny stories have amused the girl and created a pleasant atmosphere already, start to take away from her words details, showing somehow her personality. If the girl says that today didn't study, but she will still have to study, then you can conclude that she's studying somewhere. 

If she says, she loves to ride a scooter or motorcycle we can conclude that she loves adventures and various dangers. Your main goal at this stage is to go from cheerful chatter to a serious conversation who's she in reality. This is a very important stage of your dating, when fun blends in meaningful conversation. Just here, finding out some details about the girl and considering her personal qualities, you can make her a compliment, she will be very cherishing by, believe us.

Emotional connection.

Once you have learned the girl closer, it's the time to establish with her an emotional contact. For this purpose it's necessary to tell a little about yourself and smoothly go to a personal story.

Personal story.

A woman just like you wants to know what kind of people you are. And now, when you've installed some emotional connection, begin to tell a fascinating life story. The main thing is not to brag and not to lie, because she'll expose easily your attempt to make a cheap impression.

Your story should not be very short (it's better several minutes) and to convey something important about your character; it should show how deeply you love the present life. If you do everything correctly - you will intrigue her and look in her eyes very attractive.

More cheerful communication.

Successfully passing through all the points of our plan from greeting to fun, skillfully using jokes and laughter, you've known what she likes in life. You've installed with her emotional communication, telling her a life story. Now, when a woman is intrigued, go back to jokes and funny conversations again, just amuse the girl again. Do not let on the first date too many serious conversations. Repeat this approach from time to time and you'll notice soon that your relationship is becoming deeper.

Awareness about further actions.

It's important for women (if they liked a man) that the initiative for further actions was emanated from him. It happens, that a woman stops acquaintance due to the fact the man did not offer her further activities and visits, did not kiss, not tried to deepen relationships and so on. In such case usually comes another man and does all that. 

Remember, if you have successfully implemented all provisions of this plan - move forward without stopping. If this was your first meeting, tell her that you wish to meet again. If it was a real date - kiss her and deepen your emotional connection.

Note that to change the order of these actions is risky. Correctly doing all steps of the plan, you'll be surprised to see, how it has helped you in a communication with a girl and made it more intimate.